Even writers experience moments when we’re at a loss for words.
Have you ever been in a group or even one-on-one with someone, and he or she says something so incredibly outlandish that your brain is baffled and you’re rendered speechless?
I have.
And then there are times when someone is doing something that is wrong. Do you say something? Ignore it? Walk away?
I guess in that situation it really depends on how close you are to the person, and what exactly it is that’s being done. I think most of us would find some way to cover an incoherent or injured, partially naked stranger. But will we tell our friend that her boyfriend is cheating on her?
And then there’s a writer’s life–writing. We often get to a spot in one or more of our books (and maybe more than one spot) where the words refuse to come. We’re staring at a blank page (either physical or on the computer) and the characters will not share.
Now to a “normal” person that sounds weird, but to all the writers out there…well, our characters talk to us, and when they don’t, we want to know why. Most times we ask. What I usually find is that I’ve sent them in a direction they do not wish to go. And trust me, if they don’t want to go, they won’t…at least not without some blood and tears. Sometimes a lot.
Fortunately, my latest release, Broken Valentine, (2/12/16) was not like that. I started the novella just before New Year’s Day and finished it just in time to release it for Valentine’s Day. And it even got edited. :) I managed to write over 10,o00 words, which is just a quarter of this story, in one day. That was awesome. I celebrated–because I’d never done a 10k day before–and then collapsed from exhaustion.
What about you? What have you done that caused you to celebrate and then collapse?
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Here’s more about Broken Valentine:
Being stood up on Valentine’s Day is not how Sarah Sawyer wanted the evening to go. It only gets worse when she discovers her boyfriend’s betrayal. Accepting a ride home from her attractive waiter goes against everything she’s been taught, but her choices are limited.
Michael Richmond can’t let his beautiful, yet heart-broken customer walk home, no matter how tired he is after working fourteen hour days all week.
It might be either the best decision of his life or the worst. Only time will tell if their broken hearts can become one, or if they will tear each other apart.
Broken Valentine is the second book in the Broken Holidays Series, but can be read as a stand-alone.
Blessings,
dingo4mum says
Hi Ginger! Great post. :) I’d love to read this story. So glad the words flowed for you.
All the best as you write for His glory! Lucy
Jill Weatherholt says
Ten thousand words in one day is quite impressive, Ginger. The most I’ve ever written in a day was 4500….you’ve inspired me!
I look forward to reading Broken Valentine. The cover is intriguing.
ajf54 says
Wow what an accomplishment! Can’t wait to read this book!
Renate says
Congrats Ginger on your tenacity as a writer. Not sure I could write 10,000 words. I enjoyed the novella Broken Valentine and wrote the following review on Amazon. The theme in Broken Valentine: “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.” Even though the small town judgmental and overbearing attitude and actions of both sets of parents in the 21st century may be somewhat unbelievable. The couple took God at his word and made the best during difficult circumstances. Broken but restored.
Surpassing goals is always an achievement and most goals leave a person exhausted. While in my late 30s and living in Chicago, I walked 30k (18 miles) for March of Dimes. I am not athletic or exercise regularly. As a busy mom, pastor’s wife, and teacher, I did not have time to prepare. Also it was almost a mile walk from the parking garage to the starting point. On a cool April Sunday morning, 6000 walkers left Grant Park. Walking along Lake Michigan was uplifting. I was about 1/3 of the way when some people where already returning. I started at 8 in the morning and finished at 3 in the afternoon. Celebrated, but exhausted. Then the mile trek to the car. The next day climbing the stairs at school was painful.
Have a great week.
mylittlegrayhome says
When I first met my husband, he said something that I felt was rude so I told him to drop dead. Luckily, my whit intrigued him and we’ve been married 26 years now. Sometimes I wish I didn’t have words to say. It would keep me out of trouble.
DK Stevens says
Sometimes there just isn’t anything to say.. just a hug or holding their hand.
Would like to read your book..
Beth Gillihan says
Sounds like a great read! Great job on 10,000 words in one day!
Kimberly Rose Johnson says
Congratulations on a 10k writing day! That’s incredible. Just going to work somedays causes me to collapse when I get home lol. Nothing very spectacular to report here. :)
Nancy K says
What an accomplishment to write 10,000 words in a day. I have Broken Valentine on my Kindle to read so I do not need to be entered in that drawing.
Jennifer Craig says
Hi Ginger. You are a new author to me. I love this blog as I have been introduced to a few authors I hadn’t known about before. Your book sounds great.
Margaret Nelson says
I know I need exercise, but usually after coming back from my 30 min. walk, I collapse and read for 3 times as long as I walked :-)
pattymh2000 says
I’m not a writer, but 10,000 words does sound like a lot for one day ! Would love to read the results of that effort.
Katy C. says
Looking forward to reading your book!
Valerie Comer says
One reason I love being a writer is that I am not always witty on the spot in person. I often think of the perfect finale or comeback hours after prime time. As a writer, I can edit it in and have my characters seem quicker on the draw than I really am.
A 10K day is quite an achievement! I think I’ve done it once. I usually get to a spot midway through a new story where the words start to flow and I can write 2-3 chapters in one day (6000-8000 words). I feel like a rocket ship on those days, but can’t keep the momentum for more than a few days before my brain collapses.
Elizabeth Maddrey says
Congrats on your 10K day! I can do that if someone is watching the kids, so…it doesn’t happen often. :)
Trixi says
I’ve so often read where authors stated that their characters won’t talk to them….at first I found it a bit strange, but I’ve since learned this is just a normal part of the writing process! I guess like people, you can’t MAKE them do what they don’t want to…haha! Congrats on the 10K day!
juliearduini says
Ginger, I love that cover. Beautiful. The most I’ve ever accomplished in a day was close to 7k. I didn’t even know my name by the end of the day. Congratulations on finishing!
Cindy Castillo Hipolito says
You are a ‘new to me author’. I am thrilled for you that you wrote 10k words in a marathon night! The story line sounds intriguing. Best to you.
Linda Hogue says
That is amazing I can’t begin to understand how you could do that. From someone who loves to read but hasn’t a clue how to write anything I’m impressed. I would love to read your book.
harley0326 says
Thanks for sharing your story. Sometimes we just have to dig in deep and never give up . I would be blessed to read your book.
Deana/Harley.
Lorraine says
I love the cover design. It draws you in to discover what they are looking at, and how does it relate to the story. I’ve often wondered about the writing process. How long does it take to write a book, edit and get it published?
Glad your experience with this book was relatively quick. I know how rewarding it is to meet a personal goal. Way to go. Looking forward to reading both in this series.
Gingers219 says
Before I read all of your wonderful comments, I want to post a quick apology. I dropped the proverbial ball today in staying on top of everything. I was posting on four different blogs today–just happened to be the way it fell, and I didn’t do a good job of keeping up.
So, with that…here I go to read what you have to say…
Gingers219 says
LUCY!!! How goes it, mate? Thanks for the encouragement.
Gingers219 says
It was my first time, Jill, and by the end of the day, and for a few days afterward, my brain was mush. I’m much better at 4-5k/day. :)
Gingers219 says
Thanks, AJF.
Gingers219 says
Thanks for posting an honest review, Renate. Congrats on finishing that walk. Shew! That’s impressive.
Gingers219 says
True that, mylittlegrayhome. Sometimes our mouths get into so much trouble–at least mine does.
Gingers219 says
That’s true, DK. Good luck.
Gingers219 says
Thanks, Beth, on both counts.
Gingers219 says
I don’t know how I could do what I do and have a full-time job. My hat’s off to you, Kimberly, and others like you. Some days just doing the necessary is exhausting. But we persevere, because that’s what moms do, right?
Gingers219 says
Thanks, Nancy. I hope you enjoy BV.
Gingers219 says
Well, I’m glad you found me, Jennifer. I hope you enjoy my writing.
Gingers219 says
Well, we can consider it your reward, Margaret. Thirty minutes of walking, 90 minutes of reading. Sounds reasonable. :)
Gingers219 says
Patty, 10k is a lot. Beyond a lot. A typical writer on a typical day can write 1k/hour, 10k/day is equivalent to a 10 hour work day with no breaks. However, on this particular day, I wrote off and on, so I would say I averaged probably 1500 words/hour. I hadn’t done it before, and I’m not sure I’ll ever do it again, but it’s awesome to say that I have done it. :D
Gingers219 says
Thanks, Katy.
Gingers219 says
Exactly, Valerie. 10k day = brain mush.
I also think of things hours later that I should have said, while it takes seconds to realize I shouldn’t have said something. :D
Gingers219 says
I’m not sure what my kids were doing, but somehow I must have tuned them all out. :)
Gingers219 says
I know it’s weird, Trixi. We are a different kind of people. There are normals and writers. :D
Gingers219 says
7k is nothing to sneeze at. Thanks on the cover. My son puts together the background for me, and I work on the little stuff.
Gingers219 says
Welcome, Cindy. I’m glad you found me. I hope you enjoy my stories.
Gingers219 says
Thanks, Linda. I was impressed too. I had to pinch myself and check my word count several times before I believed I’d actually accomplished the famed 10k day. LOL
Gingers219 says
Absolutely, Deana. Never give up. Sometimes that means being still, and other times it means doing something, but it’s always worth it.
Gingers219 says
The writing process is different for each writer and even each book. Broken Valentine came about quickly. I have a book releasing in April that has been two plus years in the making. Sometimes the story is easy, and sometimes it pulls out our guts and puts them on display.
Indie published books, like Broken Valentine, go quicker, whereas small presses usually run around a six to twelve month timetable, and the big publishers work on about an eighteen month timetable, but those are estimates and don’t include the initial writing time.
I hope that answers your question, Lorraine.
Nancy K says
Just wanted to comment again that I started Broken Valentine yesterday evening and finished it last night since it was a novella. I enjoyed it so very much. It had a twist that I wasn’t expecting which made it that more interesting.
Gingers219 says
I’m so glad you enjoyed it, Nancy. :D If you’d be willing(it’s okay if you don’t want to), I would love it if you would leave a review on Amazon and/or Goodreads. Thanks.
Nancy K says
Ginger I have already left a review on Amazon and it has been posted to their website.
Gingers219 says
Thank you so much, Nancy.
Betsy Pauzauskie says
My daughter’s wedding caused me to celebrate and then collapse. All the pre-planning, the excitement of the event, then a collapsing relief. Beautiful . . . joy-filled . . . happily exhausted!
Linda Herold says
I was a special education teacher for 30 years and every day I got home and collapsed. I celebrated the good days and was relieved when the bad days were over!!
Gingers219 says
Oh, I can definitely see that happening. My daughters are a few years away from weddings, but I envision the joyful collapse when it’s all over. :)
Gingers219 says
i applaud you, Linda. It takes a special person to teach special education, not because the kids are hard to teach, but because there are so many levels of need, and you (I assume) want to help each one in the best way possible and reach for that aha! moment.
harley0326 says
Congrats on the book. I love your determination . I remember five years ago when my oldest son got married. It was just family and the justice of the peace. My daughter-in-law had moved here to marry my son. She gave up everything to be with him . She is an only child so I know it was hard to leave everything behind. There was a moment during the brief ceremony when I held my breath. The judge asked her the question which she was suppose to say I do. Instead there was silence for two minutes. My heart was pounding so hard I thought I would pass out. Finally she said the words and I began to breathe. Yes u collapsed in the car and turned to my husband and we both said, ‘that was close”
Gail Hollingsworth says
Your book sounds amazing!
And sometimes I’m also surprised at some of the things people say. I think they just like hearing themselves talk, or like to be the center of attention, no matter how outlandish.
Gingers219 says
Wow. I can only imagine how your son felt. A hard decision for her, for sure. Thanks for stopping by.
Gingers219 says
Absolutely, Gail. I think they probably kick themselves (or maybe not) when they think about how stupid their words sounded. :)
I remember when my kids were little and all seven of them went with me… people would ask, “You do know what causes that, right?” I was tempted so many times to go into a spiel about the birds and the bees and see if they became embarrassed because they wanted to discuss my private life. I refrained, but sometimes only by the grace of God.
Beth Schwarzlose (@betherin02) says
Congratulations on the book and 10,000 words in one day is just incomprehensible to me! Some days I struggle to write coherent book reviews. I’m thankful God gave us all unique gifts, I make a mean chocolate chip cookie and they go great with good books (generously provided by you lovely Inspy Romance authors)!
Gingers219 says
Thanks, Beth. Before I did it, it was incomprehensible to me, too. :D I find book review hard to write, actually. Most of the time, Amazon gets the minimum number of words.
Chocolate chip cookies are AWESOME!
dingo4mum says
Going pretty good. I’m losing weight now that I’m chasing not-so-baby Sarah. Found time to edit/re-write a few chapters of my book. Got some inspiration for a story set in Australia. :) So, all good. :)