A month ago, I had parathyroid surgery after several years of dealing with tough symptoms. (In case you’re wondering, the parathyroid has nothing to do with thyroid—different issue.) Unfortunately, my specialist was no help at all—she ended up dismissing my symptoms and concerns and then abandoning me. In the end, I consulted with a surgeon in Arizona, where I ended up having a successful surgery.
And I really, really want to write about this 📚
Not in a memoir way, but I’m thinking a woman’s fiction novel served up with a heaping side of romance. Maybe a hunky guy who shows up to, I don’t know, fix a leaky faucet while she’s at home recuperating. Or perhaps she bumps into a single guy on retreat at the resort where she stays after the surgery …
True Stuff
Anyway, in case you’ve ever wondered, this is where writers come up with a nugget of an idea: Reality.
I’ve mentioned in the past that I wrote the bestselling novel, Walking on Sea Glass. That story is loosely inspired by my own life and deals with illness and romance, among other things.
This new novel won’t be autobiographical except for the part about how the heroine’s medical concerns are pushed and pushed and pushed aside until … she finds the courage to take matters into her own hands. Doesn’t that sound victorious? I already have a loose outline and notes on this idea.
My questions to you:
Can you relate in some way? And would you read a novel with this theme? Let me know!
(Photo of me poolside at a resort in Arizona the day after the surgery … hiding the swelling 😳.)
Trudy says
Yes, I’d read a book with that theme! My Mom had hyperparathyroidism, but she was in her late 80’s, early 90’s, and not a surgical candidate. So, we had to get a very expensive medication (thankfully, she had really good insurance!), and even when they finally had a generic, it was really expensive, too!
RuthieH says
Glad you finally managed to get the surgery you needed. I think this would make a great start to a book – it’s really relatable and I always fine stories where characters come through and deal with difficult medical issues really inspiring.
Erin Stevenson Quint says
Sounds like a winner to me! Taking charge of your medical journey is something many will relate to. I’m glad you finally got the help you needed.
Jessica B. says
I would definitely read that book! I hope your recovery is continuing to go smoothly.
Julie Carobini says
Wow, Trudy. I’m so sorry. Sounds like she had a wonderful support system in you ❤️
Kendra Muonio says
I think my cousin just had that same surgery or something similar she had to get part of her thyroid taken out as she had other things going on with her body not feeling good mentally but after she got this surgery a month or so ago she feels way better.Im glad she got it done as she still has young children and before she got it done she would stay in bed all day.
JULIE ARDUINI says
I’m sorry you went through all of that and you were dismissed by those who took an oath to care for patients.
My daughter has Pseudohypoparathyroidism type 1A and little is known. I shared a little of her story in one of my novellas and I noted nothing is really used in fiction about thyroid issues. They are life-altering symptoms that at a glance, most judge and think the person is whining, lazy, etc…
Get better, and write your story. I look forward to reading it!
Tonya says
Having symptoms dismissed etc is unfortunately very common. I think a lot of women will relate.
I have a chronic illness and have debated a lot about writing a fictional character as well.
Julie Carobini says
Thank you for the encouragement, Ruthie!
Julie Carobini says
Thank you <3
Julie Carobini says
Hi Julie! Thank you so much. Yes, I’ve learned so much and I’m committed to helping others w/this disease. I’m so sorry your daughter has had to deal with something so rare–I had to look that up because in all my research, had not come across it. Such a wonderful mom, you are ❤️
Julie Carobini says
I’m sorry to hear it, Tonya. Writing can be so cathartic.
Alicia Haney says
Hi Julie, I am so very glad that you finally got a Dr. that lead you in the right direction, and Godwilling you are on the road to recovery and feeling much better. Yes, I can relate and yes please write the book, I am sure that you will be helping alot of people . Have a great weekend and take care. God Bless you and your family.
Julie Carobini says
Thank you, Alicia! You have a great weekend too! 🇺🇸
Debra Pruss says
Yes. I deal with multiple health issues. Even though I like to escape when reading, it is comforting to know other’s also go through medical issues and come out the other side with their health restored. Thank you for sharing. Praying for your speedy recovery. God bless you.
bn100 says
maybe
Dianne says
Oh yes I can certainly relate to medical provider abuse, it seems to be exceedingly common no matter where you live.
Yes I would read it! Thanks :)