By: Staci Stallings
After watching a motivational speech the other day about purpose and what you believe and how that impacts your work and how that influences your life, I got to thinking about my writing. What do I believe about people, about life, about love, about faith, about hope…? And on and on.
What do I believe?
So in the spirit of helping myself answer that question, here are some things I believe and therefore write about:
I believe that broken people are redeemable, and God is in the redemption business.
I believe that relationships should be about more than getting to that first kiss or getting someone into bed with you. I believe that real love relationships teach us to become the best version of ourselves–healthy, strong, faith-filled, inspired, and inspiring.
I believe that too often we push people down because of our own insecurities and brokenness. I believe it is in healing ourselves that we learn the value of helping others to heal.
I believe that life is not fair, and that’s the point. I believe we will each come to places that challenge us to rise above who we think we are to become who we were always meant to be. If life was “fair,” that would not happen, and we would never be given the adversity we need to learn to grow.
I believe that having a vision for your life is incredibly important, but too many times, our vision is denigrated and snuffed out before we even know we have it. So we walk through life with grayed out emotions, barely skirting the edge of depression and anxiety. I believe we look to out there to fix in here, and when we learn we’ve gotten it backwards and begin to work from the inside out, life really can and does change.
I believe God gave each of us a special gift that the world tries to talk us out of. I believe God’s plan for each of us is to sell what the world would have us believe to buy that field with the precious pearl of the amazingness God put in us.
I believe inspiration can and should come from two avenues—the Holy Spirit and each other. I believe when we waste God’s plan for us, we aren’t just hurting ourselves but also those around us who were meant to be inspired by our reaching for the ultimate good God had planned for us.
I believe to learn to handle hardship, turmoil, and difficulties, we have to deal with the hardships, turmoil and difficulties that come our way. We learn to deal with life by actually dealing with life.
I believe we are all endowed by our Creator, not just with unalienable rights, but also with amazing possibility and potential. I believe God gave us that potential and that He is right there ready to help us learn to use it, but it is up to us to make the choices and do the work to get where He wants us to go.
I believe the point of life is not to be perfect. The point is to get in there, try, make mistakes, learn from the mistakes, do better, be better, forgive, love, and to see beyond whatever is standing in our way.
I believe we all have the right to dream, to think outside of what is to what could be.
I believe we should be aiming at eternity and making learning about God a top priority. I believe it really makes a profound difference in our life when we do that.
I believe that two or three working toward a goal with God can be all-but unstoppable.
I write pointing toward the world I believe in, starting where a person is and pointing them to eternity.
So my question, dear readers, is this: What do you believe? What is it about Christian Romance that inspires you to hope that your beliefs can be realized?
Please share so we can be inspired by YOU!
Wemble says
Hi Staci- amen and amen. I love your statement of beliefs- it resonates within me:)
Blessings:)
Laurie Larsen says
I love this! Thanks. I believe that God uses people, as imperfect as we all are, to help those around us and to answer prayer. Pretty awesome way for him to get his work done!
Staci Stallings says
Fantastic! Thanks so much for stopping by, Wemble!
Have a blessed day!
Staci Stallings says
AMEN to THAT, Laurie! I agree… very awesome way for Him to get His work done! And I believe we learn great things when we choose to participate.
God bless you!
Trudy says
I love this!! I like Christian Fiction to show that we aren’t in things alone. That no matter what we are going through, no matter what adversity we face, God is with us through it, and if we rely on Him, we’ll come through with flying colors. God can forgive us whatever we may have done or do, and He’s always there when we turn to Him in repentance and ask Him to help us get back on the right way. I like books that show the redemption of lost souls, and the taking back of ones that strayed, and the strengthening of others.
Margaret Nelson says
Thanks for writing this, Staci, and for your books. The ones I’ve read so far I have really loved because of your beliefs that empower your writing!
Diana says
I get inspired by different approaches to life changing events and day in day out responsibility. I like seeing how the authors have their characters approach life and God and interpret Bible verses. Sometimes I see something in a new light.
Staci Stallings says
Trudy,
I love the redemption story line. I often say that my writing strategy is to take a mess, throw God in the middle of it and watch Him work. Love to watch what He does with lost souls.
God bless!
Staci Stallings says
Margaret,
Thanks so much for reading. I think the whole concept of I can take stories from my mind, write them down, and put them into your mind by you reading them is SO COOL!
Have an awesome day!
Staci Stallings says
Diana,
I think by reading, we can “live” many different lives so that we gain perspective on why people do things that they do. Otherwise, we’re trapped in the belief that our way is the only way. I know I’ve learned from my characters, and sometimes, I like their way better than what before that I thought was my only option. :D
God bless!
Lelia (Lucy) Reynolds says
I love this. Thank you for sharing. I believe we go through trials to be able to have compassion and empathy towards others. We have a choice become better or become bitter. Blessings
Staci Stallings says
Absolutely! Trials teach us in ways that nothing else can.
Blessings back!